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iptables is Dropping Pakets i can’t see with tcpdump and i don’t know why

Simple Question for Some, not for me…
My IPTables Rules are Blocking “apt update” and “apt upgrade” and “apt install”
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Which is using 80 or 443 outgoing, and uses state ESTABLISHED in INPUT Chain as far as i know.
These are my Rules:
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in tcpdump i can’t see nearly any traffic while these rules are enebled, i can’t see the Server even Trying to reach anything while trying to use apt. or im to fucking dump…
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If i set all Policys to ACCEPT and Flush all Chains, everything Works and i dont fucking get it. What ther Fuck! am i missing?!